Once upon a time, when you attended a funeral it would be a sombre occasion with mourners dressed in black. Today, many funeral homes and services are conducted as a celebration, with loved ones choosing a fun theme to represent the deceased’s personality or interests.
Christmas
In America, one funeral home has become known for its themed funerals – including a
Christmas-themed service complete with snow, elves and reindeers and a BBQ-inspired after party with live pigs and a barbeque sauce fountain.
In the UK, so-called ‘fun funerals’ are becoming increasingly popular, too. According to the National Association of Funeral Directors, their members have arranged all sorts of themed services involving classic cars, railways and the Wild West.
Superheroes
Superheroes are a popular choice. For one funeral service for a Spider-Man fan, the coffin was covered in Spider-Man vinyl stickers you can make at home. Undertakers often get into the spirit of the theme as well, with one dressing as Darth Vader to lead the cortege for a Star Wars style funeral.
Music
At the funeral of a music festival fan, the Glastonbury-inspired service saw all the mourners dressed in wellington boots while the coffin arrived on a customised camper van. For a football fan, mourners wore football shirts and the service finished with a final whistle. There’s even been a funeral service where everyone wore a onesie – the favourite outfit of the deceased.
Not for everyone?
A ‘fun’ funeral service isn’t for everyone. Recently TV presenter Colin Brazier asked mourners at his wife’s funeral to keep with tradition and wear black https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-44923744.
However in one study it was found that 66% of people believed funerals were becoming more of a celebration of a deceased person’s life, with a third saying that when it came to their own funeral they’d like it to be a party.
You might not want elves and sauce fountains at your loved one’s funeral but you may like to personalise the service to reflect their fun side.
Whatever you decide, we’re here to help and support you.
* To talk to us about planning a funeral or cremation, please contact Austin’s on 01438 316623.
